We always want to live our lives in a peaceful way especially when we are in the relationship or more specifically between husband & wife or boyfriend & girlfriend. We don’t want to argue with our partners on silly things, but although we control so much still have some hot talks or arguments with our partners for which we regret it later. Here we are providing you some tips to avoid the fight in your relationship.
Nobody is perfect
You must have to accept that in this whole world nobody is perfect not even you, so how could you aspect that your partner will behave so much perfectly. The argument will occur due to imperfection either by any of the partners but you need to be more tactical and try to avoid it at the same time. It’s not a game or war where either you win or your partner win. Maybe in some cases, we will win the arguments but ultimately we lose that relationship.
Always remember in a relationship there is a chance where partners may not be perfect but their relationship must be perfect.
Be in present
Always lives in present. As we don’t read the older newspaper, articles etc. and looking for new one. Similarly, why you stuck into the older arguments. Forget it those foolish disgusting arguments and try to focus on the new one only.
Discuss single issue at a time
One thing that you have to remember that always discuss only one single issue at a time. Do not involve your past issues or arguments, if you involve them then instead of discussing and sorting out the issue you only arguing on the past matters. It is not like a rapid-fire round where you have to answer 8 or 10 questions one after another. It’s a serious relationship so be careful and respectful of your relationship.
Avoid judgment
Try to avoid judgemental in a relationship. You are not a media reporter or a lawyer to sentence your decisions. You must become a good listener so that you can understand the root cause of the problem and try to resolve them with the best possible solution.
Don’t assume
We all are different and everybody have their own personality and identity. We all are having our own point of view. So don’t assume that in a relationship always the other person had guilty. That is only your assumption, maybe in general opinion, you may be wrong. So listen your partner’s point of view discuss it in detail and please do not assume by your own.
Avoid few words
If possible for you then try to avoid few word like ”it’s all your fault”, “you never accept your mistakes” or “you never apologize for your mistakes” bla bla bla… Using these type of wording will irritate your partner and this will lead to a deluge of never-ending argument.
Be compassion
Try to avoid the things that will irritate your partner. Do the work with good intentions and take actions to maintain this serious relationship. Make your partner comfortable and feel them special, give surprises and try to energize your relationship.
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Disclaimer: Recommendations and suggestions above are generic in nature. Be advised to consult a certified trainer or another professional before trying yourself.
