I am a 35-year woman and married for 8 years. I recently found that my husband still loves his Ex. I accidentally found his emails and pictures over his laptop in a secret folder. I do not want to confront him as I know he is having great convincing power. He will surely convince me. I do not want to be in this relationship anymore. We do not have any kid as we decide mutually that not to have it. He is very caring and responsible person and he had never ever shouted on me. He is having a bit reserve nature but now I get the reason behind it after this discovery. Although I had ignored the feeling earlier thinking that I am over speculating the things and he is just an unromantic person. Kindly advise me what I can do? – By Anonymous
Expert Says: It seems that you are going through a very critical and tough time in your life. I am somewhat unclear about the details that you had provided. Whether the emails or picture that you had discovered is before your marriage or in a current. If all these stuff is before marriage then I will suggest you not get too disturbed by them.
Secondly, you do not interpret all the things in the light of this discovery. It will cause more distress and even ruin your relationship too. You just take a final call by you own with cold mind and decide whether do you want to be in this relationship or not. You are just 35 and you can decide your future.
Uncertainty will always cause more discomfort. If you think you have had enough in this relationship, then seeks support from family and friends and take them into your confidence. Discuss this matter openly along with your husband and aware him about your decision. But be stiff with your decision whatever you decide. Initially, it causes distress but over a period of time you will be better and life become normal. If you require any professional help then do not hesitate to seek.
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